Gender & Prounouns Online π
We can choose to display our gender or / and sexuality and our non conforming identitys on Facebook now with so many choices on our about us π it's a brave show of solidarity with others that I hope will educate so many ..
I'm not straight π€£.. we all knew that long before the FB era ... Neither am I the most femine person on the planet ..24.7 .. neither do I dress a set way .. it confuses people π
We all grew up with so many proud words these days that are used to slang and be seen as insults. .. but look I'll say it .
I'm the Queerest person on the planet and I wanted to make my podcast the most open friendly educated place to learn .
I'm nosy we all guessed that one .. Neither do I want to change my sex I was born with ... Just thought I wanted to get that out there π€
U all see me modelling and know neked is my preferred choice of acceptance in a safe and non segualised way π€£
Who assume that because we are in 2021 that we can identify as a sandwich. That's a real thing and on Irish humour we get it. ..education teaches that their are real people behind that joke. . ππ»
YOUR SEXUALITY AND YOUR GENDER IDENTITY ARE TWO DIFFIRENT THINGS.
It doesn't change your partners or your potential partner(S) own identity ..or sexuality ..
This is something I feel is stigmatised the most ..
Neither does it change yours or mean your one or the other and changed "back " if you choose to have partner or partners of the OPPOSITE SEX
Like I could be dating a man and that man could present as the most Cis Man on the planet and I could be adored for being the flex shit I am . Doesn't mean I've forgotten my own seguality choices and now present as straight because well I'm NOT ..
And I'm finally cool with that ❤️ it's 2021
I'm Izzy that sees people not Genders ❤️ so to the Theys ,The Bis , the Girls and The Gays ππ much love from me .
We can choose to share our pronouns and have it as it stands a "They" if you wish ..
So when it comes to birthdays . Greetings etc etc it automatically says They ❤️
On behalf of myself and everyone who I speak to on the podcast and in real life in messages and everything , I love that change now ❤️
I'm absolutely estatic and I urge everyone to think wise about theirs .It's a very liberating thing ..
And if you chose to be addressed as something diffirent to your name .. I promise I won't assume and your welcome to share it with me privately if you wish. π
You my loves are VALID ❤️ from the bottom of my self that sees people not genders , sees a lifetime of struggle . Sees validation. .
Photo credit to Andy Bertaut from CurvyBoudoir .